Title: Telling star clusters from galaxies in the `ultra-compact dwarf'' regime Abstract: It seems established that ultra-compact dwarf galaxies (UCDs) are a mixture of massive globular clusters, stripped nuclear star clusters and extend, without a clear gap, into the regime of compact ellipticals. But is it possible to pin-point a likely origin, i.e. compact galaxy, or star cluster, to individual objects? Galactic and extra-galactic star clusters show an enhancement in nitrogen uniquely linked to the `second generation'' stars formed in the high-density, short time-scale `cluster'' mode of star formation. Early-type (compact or dwarf) galaxies, on the other hand, show no such enhancement. Analysing the CN absorption bands in the integrated spectrum of individual UCDs, we find evidence that UCDs indeed appear to inhabit both, the CN-enhanced cluster, and the CN-normal galaxy populations. Thus, the measurement of the CN (or nitrogen) abundance provides a powerful tool to separate UCDs into star clusters and compact galaxies and may be our best chance in tracing the cluster-dwarf galaxy interface on the `compact'' side.